(dc) lessons
lessons of the month (notes to self):
1. don't put yourself in situations where you don't know the history and where just by talking honestly and openly with people you are forced to take sides. listen before jumping in.
2. don't be so open with everyone. know when to shut up.
3. stay out of other peoples' family bizness. know when to shut up.
4. don't assume everyone trusts you and gives you the benefit of the doubt just because you trust them and give them the benefit of the doubt. know when to shut up.
5. you can't always help, even if you really want to, and you might even just make things worse. know when to stop trying to help.
6. it's possible to be generous to a fault. avoid this.
posted by cherry blossom @ 11:48 PM
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4. In my experience the very nature of giving people the benefit of the doubt would be expecting them to give you the benefit of the doubt.
6. Where is the line? I haven't yet been able to find it.
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